Sunday, November 19, 2006

To everything, there is a season

Dad had a point once, when he said that the "official" start of every season is actually late by twenty-two days. You know how summer does not officially kick off until June 22, autumn on September 22, etc? Why not just bump it all back to the beginning of these respective months? I mean, do we really think that December 18th, for instance, is still autumn? Or that Saint Patrick's Day is in the winter? We proposed the following:

Winter: December 1.
Spring: March 1.
Summer: June 1.
Fall: September 1.

There. Isn't that how we already think of it, anyway?

What puts me thinking about this is that it seems to have suddenly switched seasons. Here in the Pfalz, they call last month "goldener Oktober." And for good reason! It was sunny and pleasantly warm, but the leaves were still bronze and copper and beautiful. There were grapevines and winefests, and the sun rose at, like, six-thirty am.

All of a sudden, it's like a curtain has dropped! Just in the last week, too. One morning, it was eight o'clock and I was walking to school in the sunshine without a jacket. The next morning, it was dark, cold, and foggy, and the sun decided to go down at what seemed like four-thirty in the afternoon. Seriously! It was dark at a quarter after five today! If I get out of school at 3:30 (typical for Mondays and Tuesdays), then I have less than two hours of daylight in which to go jogging or run errands, before it's too dark to do anything by yourself. It's been raining for a week, and the grapevines are a bunch of scraggly sticks. Hmph. Most disagreeable. I think the standard way people add some sparkle to the darkness is with Gluehwein and gingerbread, both seemingly excellent options; but frankly, I've gotten fat enough since I've been here, and so I've *just* decided to cut out the sweets and alcohol for a while. Nice going, Nikki!


On the bright (get it? :) ) side, the Christmas decorations are going up already. Now in Arizona, I would scoff at the idea of ribbons on streetlights before December 1st. There, it feels like forced "Xmas" cheer, rammed down your throat as early as possible in a thinly-veiled attempt to cash in on the pre-season buyfest; holiday-themed car commercials and garish Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer cartoons in shop windows, advertising 99 cent cheeseburgers... all made as shallow and meaningless as possible, because God forbid we actually admit there's some sort of *religious* connection to this holiday, and someone gets offended and decides not to spend their money at our chain store. Which is even more ridiculous, because no one is fooled, for example, into thinking a Christmas concert is not exactly that, just because one vague, generic, non-religious Hanukkah song about a feast of lights and a couple of "ya-ba-bim-bam"s are mixed in among the fifty other songs hailing the Blessede Birthe of Our Lorde and Savioure Jesus Christ, Hallelujah, to His Mother, the Blessed Virgin, Ave.

Here, on the other hand, there's something decidedly un-commercial about the garland-hung streets. It's like everyone just realized that it's time to drive some of this sudden darkness away with tiny points of white light, and maybe offer a bit of Lebkuchen in the bakeries, too. The decorations feel like something that is done for you, rather than to you. And maybe it's just the sixteenth-century architecture, or the fog on the ancient hills, but the way the Advent season is celebrated around here seems to recall the Yule traditions, born of ties to the land and seasons, that gave us holly decorations and lights in the first place. It's comfortable, calming, cozy; something about it speaks to the ancient part of you that remembers your ancestors huddling close together around a fire and telling stories, deriving comfort from the closeness of community against the vast dark forests around them. And yet at the same time, it is also unabashedly religious, which seems a much more honest way to celebrate the season than our American need to cover all our consumer bases. If you celebrate Christmas, then you celebrate Christmas; if you don't, no amount of calling it a "holiday" sale is going to trick you into thinking the rest of the religious majority isn't trying to foist their Xmas buyfest upon you.

All righty, well, this post is long enough. Lange Rede, kurzer Sinn: it's getting dark around here, but there are tiny white lights aplenty. :)

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

eeek! (scrunched-up, squinty face!) Just when I was having a truly physical reaction to the cynical portion of the program (you scared me for a minute there), you sent me back to Germany the way I remember it -- thank you!! I have never understood why some were so bothered by the dark and fog and rain... and always figured I was really just a kid when we first lived there and came away with romantic fantasies. Then figured the last time I was there I was so young and falling in love. But you're right -- there's something very genuine about the way they transition from (what they call) summer to Advent and the Christmas season...kinda Charlie-Brownish.... it's beautiful. I'm so glad you're enjoying it and not experiencing some 'grown-up' version that sours your season. Now I need a cup of hot cocoa....

Nikki said...

It's true! Sorry about the cynicism... I just now went back and reread it, and you're right, it sounds pretty bitter. :-1 I think maybe what adds an edge to my criticism of a commericalized Christmas is sheer indignance at the way my favorite holiday is treated. It's not that I don't like the Christmas season; quite the contrary. But I think the Europeans do it right, the way it (at least in my mind ;-) ) is "supposed" to be, as opposed to the American habit of mass-marketing everything. American Christmas is lovely, it just also requires some ignoring of the glitz in order to enjoy the season. Maybe I was just spoiled by celebrating so much of it here during my childhood -- like you. :) And me too, I also wondered if maybe it was just childhood romanticism that gave it that sparkle -- well put! So what a nice surprise to realize that our memories seem to have been pretty accurate.

I should take some pictures!

Shauna said...

Haha, cynicism indeed! I admit to having the same indignance now and then -- it reminds me of Hobbes' comment to Calvin along the lines of, "Nothing like celebrating the birth of your savior with a month of frenzied consumerism!" And of course, Calvin's response, "Getting loads of loot is a very spiritual experience for me." Lol! Not that I don't like presents...

Thank you thank you for the gorgeous image! Wish I could be there to see it again. :) Do they hang little lights in the shape of stars, still? I should start some similar tradition in Seattle (welcome to the Northern Latitudes, by the way!) and keep the lights up all winter. I think the residents might not really notice the dark by now, though...

Oh! And I say, eat the Lebkuchen and drink the Gluehwein! Life's -- and Germany's -- too short... just go for an extra little run in the mornings :)(she says over a feast of fried eggs).

Love you!

Shauna said...
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Shauna said...

Oh, that was my double-post deleted up there, btw... oops!

Well since it's here... yes, do take pics, please! :)

Anonymous said...

I didn't mean to critique what you wrote -- I was just afraid you weren't having enough fun this week! heehee :-) ..and I woke up thinking the same as Shauna -- go ahead and enjoy the Gluhwein and Lebkuchen! Do you have a reflective vest for your run in the dark? My Dad calls post-New Year 'til Marchish the 'Dark Ages,' having grown up in the northern latitudes....before you know it, you'll be enjoying twilight until 10pm! love you!

Anonymous said...

I must admit, I was somewhat relieved to hear that you were going to slow down on the drinking because, from what I've been reading lately I'm gonna have to start a serious "training" regiment to keep up with you so I am not drunk, uh, drank, hmmm, dranked, er, drunken? under the table when I arrive there months from now.

So, should you keep it up, lemme know and I will soon wake up from my bed, already dressed in my gray sweat pants and gray hooded sweat shirt with hood-draw-string and front pockets (where one can interlock fingers if both hands are inserted into the pockets)ready to begin my day before the sun comes up. I will crack a raw egg into a glass, down it then run around the block plucking and slurping beers I placed in the neigbors' mailboxes the night before. Upon my return I'll do some circuit training with 12oz curls -that's 0.3548 liters to you- and then move onto a steady rotation of shots from the lazy Susan on my table being sure to hit all the basics like rum, some bourbons, vodka, and tequila...and maybe something foo-foo like bubblegum schnapps just in case we visit Cologne while I am there. Afterwards, to save time and cover my wines and mixed drinks at once, I will concoct a merlogarita and a call it a morning.

Anonymous said...

After a wonderful Thanksgiving "pot-luck" feast at work, I was relaxing in my office, crunching some numbers, and drafting my "State of the Industry" presentation for the Manager's Retreat on Monday; while the girls outside my door played "Jeopardy Product Knowledge" with visions of tuxedos dancing in their heads. When suddenly Tammy leaned into my door to tell me about the black "glorp" that was bubbling up from all the sewer drains and bathroom sinks... Ahhhgg... Had to put on the ol' Roto-Rooter hat and head down to the basement tool shop. (Thanks for the experience Dad... You never know when you're gonna need to know how to unclog sewers.) It was a bad one... And in my pink shirt too. Uhmph! But, now, several hours later, (and a lot of clean-up) I'm back to my powerpoint presentation. And yet, for some stupid reason, I love this job. =o) So, anyway, as I was about to close down, I just had to look in "Pickle's Jar" and see if there was something new posted.

Ahhh.. Yes. Now I'm all fuzzy, happy, and clean inside again. And your blog took the spots out of my shirt too!! Thanks Nik!!!
You sure know how to make a Dad's day!!

Amy said...

"Merlogarita"... ha! That's great :-)

But, yes, I'm glad you're getting to celebrate a more honest Christmas... I never used to like the holiday at all because of the commercialization; I didn't even think your comments were cynical (but then, cynicism is a way of life for me...).